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How Much Does Long-Term Care Cost?

2025 national medians: home care runs $80,000/year at typical hours, assisted living $74,400/year, nursing home $115,000–130,000/year. But that's the national average. Where you live and what level of care you need can move those numbers by 300% in either direction. Here is the full breakdown — and what it means for your planning.

The planning number most people get wrong. When families estimate LTC costs, they anchor on the monthly number — $6,200 for assisted living sounds manageable. The problem is duration. A 3-year stay at $6,200/month is $223,200. A 5-year nursing home stay at $10,800/month is $648,000. And if care doesn't start for 15 years, those numbers grow by another 50–80% with inflation. The cost of not planning is measured in hundreds of thousands of dollars.

National median costs by care setting (2025)

The following figures come from the CareScout 2025 Cost of Care Survey, the most comprehensive annual study of long-term care pricing in the U.S., covering hundreds of metropolitan regions across all 50 states.1

Care settingCost unit2025 national medianAnnual equivalent
Home health aide (non-medical)Per hour$35$80,080/yr (44 hrs/wk)
Adult day health carePer day$95$24,700/yr (260 days)
Assisted living communityPer month$6,200$74,400/yr
Memory care / dementia unitPer month$7,500–8,500$90,000–102,000/yr
Nursing home (semi-private room)Per day$315$114,975/yr
Nursing home (private room)Per day$355$129,575/yr

Source: CareScout 2025 Cost of Care Survey.1 Memory care estimates reflect industry-wide premium over assisted living (20–30%) based on specialized staffing requirements; individual facilities vary. Annual home care figure assumes 44 hours/week of aide coverage.

Year-over-year changes: assisted living rose 5%, nursing home semi-private rose 2%, private room rose 1%, home care rose 3%. Adult day care declined 5%. The pattern tracks broader healthcare inflation, which has historically run 3–5% annually for long-term care services.

What each setting actually provides

Home health aide care

A home health aide (HHA) provides personal care — bathing, dressing, grooming, meal preparation, light housekeeping, companionship — in the person's own home. The $35/hour national median is for non-medical, custodial care. Skilled nursing visits (wound care, IV medications) are charged separately and are frequently covered by Medicare under specific conditions.

The catch with home care: the $35/hour rate assumes someone is available. In high-demand markets, aides are scarce and rates climb to $45–55/hour. Staffing agencies typically charge an agency fee of 20–40% above the aide's wage. A family that needs 8 hours/day, 7 days/week — common for moderate dementia — spends $102,200/year at the national median, $148,000/year at a high-cost rate.

Home care is often the first and most emotionally preferred choice. It's also often the most expensive on a per-need basis because you're paying for dedicated time rather than amortizing facility overhead across many residents.

Adult day health care

Adult day programs provide supervised care in a community setting during daytime hours — typically 6–8 hours, Monday through Friday. The $95/day national median works out to roughly $25,000/year for full-time participation. It's the most affordable structured care option and allows a family caregiver to maintain employment.

Adult day is well-suited for early-to-moderate cognitive decline or physical limitations that don't yet require 24-hour supervision. It's less appropriate when someone needs overnight care, round-the-clock supervision, or has behavioral symptoms that make group settings difficult.

Assisted living

Assisted living facilities provide 24-hour supportive housing — private or semi-private apartment, meals, housekeeping, medication management, help with ADLs, activities. The $6,200/month national median covers the base rate. Most facilities have a tiered care structure where additional services (higher assistance levels, medication administration, incontinence care) add $500–2,000/month above the base.

The move into assisted living typically occurs when someone can no longer safely manage at home — usually with 2+ ADL impairments or meaningful cognitive decline. The average resident enters at age 87 and stays approximately 2 years before either transitioning to skilled nursing or passing away.

Memory care

Memory care units are secured dementia-specific environments within or adjacent to assisted living facilities. They provide higher staff-to-resident ratios, wandering prevention, specialized programming, and staff trained in dementia care. The 20–30% premium over standard assisted living reflects staffing costs.

Memory care is medically necessary, not optional, for residents with moderate-to-severe dementia. Alzheimer's patients who survive to the late stage typically spend 2–3 years in memory care specifically — layered on top of any earlier assisted living stay. Long Alzheimer's trajectories are a meaningful cost tail risk: the average duration from diagnosis to death is 8–10 years, with the last 2–3 years typically requiring intensive care.

Nursing home / skilled nursing facility

Nursing homes (also called skilled nursing facilities or SNFs) provide 24-hour medical oversight, skilled nursing, physical/occupational/speech therapy, and custodial care. A semi-private room ($315/day national median) shares a room with one other resident. A private room ($355/day) provides solitary occupancy — important for quality of life but a $14,600/year premium.

The step from assisted living to skilled nursing is driven by medical complexity — serious falls, post-acute hospital recovery, advanced dementia, or physical dependence requiring nursing-level care. Not everyone progresses to skilled nursing, but the severity of care costs makes it the dominant financial risk scenario.

The care continuum isn't linear. Many people start with home care, move to assisted living, and potentially transition to skilled nursing. Planning only for one setting underestimates total exposure. A realistic scenario: 2 years home care ($80K/yr), 2 years assisted living ($74K/yr), 1 year skilled nursing ($115K/yr) = $543,000 before any inflation adjustment.

How much LTC costs vary by state

Geographic variation in LTC costs is extreme — more than 5-to-1 between the least and most expensive states. If you plan to age in place in a high-cost state, national averages significantly underestimate your exposure. If you're willing and able to relocate for care, geography becomes a meaningful financial lever.

Nursing home (semi-private room) — highest and lowest cost states

StateMonthly medianAnnual equivalent
Highest cost states
Alaska$32,220$386,640
Oregon$16,781$201,372
Hawaii$16,006$192,072
Connecticut$15,973$191,676
New York$15,619$187,428
Lowest cost states
Texas$5,808$69,696
Missouri$6,740$80,880
Oklahoma$6,840$82,080
Arkansas$7,583$90,996
Louisiana$7,938$95,256

Source: SeniorLiving.org based on February 2026 facility survey data.2 Semi-private room, median rate.

A 3-year nursing home stay costs roughly $210,000 in Texas and $565,000 in Oregon. Planning in New York and Connecticut should use numbers closer to $200,000/year, not $115,000. Regional variation of this magnitude changes the entire self-fund vs. insure calculation.

Similar geographic dispersion exists in assisted living costs, though it's somewhat narrower. Urban markets (New York City, San Francisco, Boston, Chicago) typically run 40–70% above their state median. Rural markets can be 20–30% below.

The inflation problem: what costs look like in 15–20 years

Long-term care cost inflation has historically run 3–5% annually, tracking a blend of healthcare services inflation and skilled labor costs. At 4% annual inflation, costs roughly double every 18 years.3

If you're 60 today and plan for care beginning around age 80, you're pricing care 20 years out. Here's what the national median nursing home rate looks like at different inflation rates:

Inflation rateStarting from $115,000/yrAnnual cost in 20 years
3% per year$207,600/yr
4% per year$252,300/yr
5% per year$305,400/yr

A 3-year stay at those inflation-adjusted rates costs $622,000 to $916,000 — at the national average. Residents in high-cost states face 50–100% higher numbers.

This is why inflation protection on LTC insurance policies matters. A $300/day benefit today that doesn't inflate will buy perhaps $170/day in real purchasing power in 20 years. Compound inflation riders (3% or 5% annually) address this directly — and they're a major driver of premium cost.

Total exposure scenarios: what you might actually spend

The planning question isn't "what does a nursing home cost today" — it's "what's my realistic total LTC exposure over my lifetime, including inflation?" Below are three scenarios at the national median, adjusted for care beginning in 15 years at 4% inflation:

ScenarioCare sequenceDurationInflation-adjusted total
ModerateAssisted living3 years~$400,000
Significant2yr assisted living + 2yr skilled nursing4 years~$650,000
High2yr home care + 2yr assisted living + 2yr skilled nursing6 years~$1,100,000
Extended Alzheimer's3yr home care + 3yr memory care + 3yr skilled nursing9 years~$1,900,000

Inflation-adjusted estimates assume care begins in 15 years, 4% annual LTC inflation, national median costs, single person. Geographic location and actual care needs will shift these materially.

The extended Alzheimer's scenario isn't a tail case — it's realistic for the ~6 million Americans currently living with Alzheimer's, a disease that disproportionately affects women who outlive their spouses.4 Women's average LTC duration is 3.7 years; for Alzheimer's specifically, full-care stages often run 5–8 years.

How these costs inform the self-fund vs. insure decision

Once you have specific cost estimates for your likely state and care trajectory, the financial planning question becomes concrete: do you have enough liquid assets to self-fund the realistic range, or does the tail risk justify insurance?

General thresholds that emerge from advisor practice:

These thresholds are state-sensitive. The same $2M portfolio is comfortably sized for self-fund in Texas and barely adequate for a couple in New York with Alzheimer's exposure.

The crossover calculation — at what asset level does self-fund beat insurance premium cost — is highly specific to your premium quote, health status, state, and expected return on assets. Our self-fund vs. insure calculator runs this comparison with your actual inputs.

What a fee-only advisor does with these numbers

Most families encounter LTC cost data in a vacuum — a brochure in a doctor's waiting room, a generic online calculator, an insurance agent with a sales agenda. A fee-only advisor uses cost data differently:

LTC cost data without a balance sheet analysis doesn't tell you much. The same $130,000/year nursing home cost is irrelevant to a $5M portfolio and catastrophic to a $600K one.

The commission problem. Most people who do get LTC planning help receive it from an insurance agent who earns 50–100%+ of first-year premiums on the products they sell. That's not inherently corrupt, but it biases the advice: self-fund is never recommended, the cheapest adequate coverage is not necessarily what's presented, and the math is rarely shown in full. Fee-only advisors charge a flat fee or hourly rate and have no stake in which product (if any) you buy.

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